A Review Of German Mannerisms For Foreign Travelers

Visitors from other parts of the world that visitwomen since it is considered a more mature greeting.
Germany for vacation or business purposes areAlso unlike in the United States, a married woman is
typically pleased to note that Germans are cordial,not addressed by her husband's first name (e.g. Mrs.
polite, and welcoming. However, as with any culture,John Smith), but by her own first name (e.g. Frau Jane
Germans have mannerisms that are unique to them.Smith).
Since social etiquette is considered important in everyCommon Business Etiquette in Germany
society and Germans are no different, visitors that"Du" and "Sie"
take a small amount of time to familiarize themselvesThe method of addressing others by saying "you" is
with what Germans consider good manners will finddivided into the formal and informal manners of "Du"
that locals will often appreciate and even more warmlyand "Sie." "Du" is considered informal and should be
accept them into their country.reserved only for close acquaintances, friends and
Shaking Handsfamily. To avoid seeming disrespectful when meeting
Germans typically wait until introduced by a host tonew persons, especially in a formal or business
shake hands. Typically, older parties in a group or moreenvironment, it is generally accepted that "Sie" is the
senior persons reserve the right to extend their handproper form to use.
for a handshake first. Attendees of small parties willAttire
always take the time to shake hands with one anotherAmerican standards of business dress have relaxed in
when greeting, as opposed to larger functions wherecertain niche industries in recent years, but that doesn't
hand shakes are very rarely performed. The act ofmean that the same is true of Germans. It is typically
shaking hands in passing is considered rude. If onecustomary for business attire to be worn in nearly
takes the time to shake hands, it is considered aevery business setting. Jeans, T-shirts, and similar
precursor to at least a brief chat. Additionally, it isclothing will typically be frowned upon. When in doubt,
considered to rude to shake hands while the otheralways opt to possibly slightly overdress than to take
hand is in your pocket.the risk of under-dressing.
In formal settings, it is still considered custom to kiss aMeetings and Functions
lady's hand when introduced, though the lips shouldUnlike many other cultures, Germans will typically send
never actually touch the hand. When being introducedinvitations that outline not only when a meeting or
to adults, little German girls will occasionally courtesy infunction will begin but also when it will end. It would be
greeting. Furthermore, unlike in the United States,considered good manners to use this time as a queue
children will rarely thank someone for a compliment.to bid a proper farewell. Though no one will expect
Addressing Others in Germanyevery one to jump up and run out the door at the
The female term "Fraulein" is only used to addressexact time, it can be considered rude to ignore the
particularly young, unmarried girls. The shorter "Frau" isoutlines set up by the hosts.
used to address older, unmarried young ladies and